It's probably felt impossible to find space for you (without mom-guilt). You know what you need, but can't seem to let go of the people-pleasing put-yourself-last patterns that are keeping you stuck in overwhelm and discontent.
I know, I know. Even saying that makes you feely guilty. Because after all, we've been taught that being a mom should be completely fulfilling, and that it's normal to let go of all other parts of ourselves. What more could we want, right? lol.
What's missing from this picture is the most important component to feeling truly happy: a deep connection with yourself.
When you're connected to yourself, you know how you feel, what you need, and what matters to you most. You believe that you're worthy of receiving your own energy, without guilt. You put your priorities on the list, and stop abandoning yourself. You drop the people-pleasing patterns that keep you unhappy.
You're tired of the mom-guilt, loss of identity, and feeling like your only job is to serve. And you wonder when it's your turn to feel joy, freedom, and to be truly connected to yourself. You have a feeling there's more for you.
A 6-week live small-group program that helps you create a more fulfilling, joyful, and happy experience in motherhood.
Your connection to yourself, your joy, and what you need to live a life that you're stoked to be the main character in.
Feel connected with your thoughts, feelings, and needs and know how to create space for them.
Know your unique values, interests, and what lights you up so that it's very easy to feel aligned.
Let go of guilt and self-judgment about taking me-time, because you deeply believe you're worthy.
Know that taking care of yourself is non-negotiable and you're clear about what you need.
Feel reacquainted with your authentic self (beyond being a mom).
Easily find your joy, no matter how hard and busy a day feels.
Feel more regulated, in control, and present in your day to day life.
Have the skills to manage overwhelm and stay connected to yourself, no matter how stressful life feels.
A 6-weeks intimate coaching experience with live calls, extended messaging support, online course access and more, for just $747 USD.
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I've designed Aligned In Motherhood in a way that makes sense for busy moms like you, where it's easy to show up for yourself.
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I was struggling with feeling lost in motherhood, I had this picture of what it would look like for me based on life experiences and I was feeling pretty devastated I wasnât loving it as much as I thought I would or should. I knew I needed to sign up and work on myself and learn some better tools to cope with motherhood... Now I can cope better with day to day life and overall I feel lighter and happier and safer. I actually asked my husband and he said âyou are far less anxious about your mom skills and less hard on yourself overall you seem to be adjusting better and you look happier tooâ the less hard on myself is huge! Learning how to better cope with my feelings that arise every day has been game changing.
- Ashley M, past group coaching client
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She is so supportive, thoughtful, insightful and is able to connect with me. I so appreciate her and how she asks the right questions to help me release emotions that I didn't know I was pushing down, and questions to help me think a different way. So very fortunate to be working with her.
So thankful for Kate! For one to one support! For new perspectives and tools. â¤ď¸â¤ď¸â¤ď¸
I so appreciate Kate - how she listens, gently offers guidance, suggests tools, checks in asking if a certain direction seems useful, and helps create a plan moving forward.
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I signed up for the group program because I was struggling to find a way that I could 'do it all' and still be me. I was about to have my second baby and wanted to be prepared. There are so many things I gained from the program! I loved how in depth it was, how the practical tips were backed by psychology research and not just 'woo woo'. My relationship and communication with my husband has really improved and my mum guilt us much more under control.
- Sam H, past group coaching client
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I signed up for the program because I felt like I was spiraling. My mind was always racing, I couldnât sleep, I was resenting my partner and not really enjoying being a mom. When I saw this course, I wanted in! I wanted to find my joy in motherhood. I wanted to shine! Kate was the only person who made me feel validated. I knew she was exactly the right person I could trust.
- Courtnie T, past group coaching client
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Great listening and allowing me the space to process and explore self/situation with patience, timely suggestions, feedback, and supportive statements. I appreciated the connection to my ongoing thread/theme throughout our sessions.
I have been to one of Kate's groups and it was excellent. I was quiet and shy but Kate was able to speak to me directly and make me feel included. Kate made me feel comfortable to speak up and feel heard. It was also so nice to hear other parents having similar experiences, I felt less alone. Thank you for taking the time to support those of us in the parenthood journey.
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I signed up for Mama Shine (past group coaching program) because I knew I needed additional support... I was being hard on myself if I lost my patience or if I took time for myself. I thought I was the only one experiencing these things, so I decided to find help. I found the program very useful. I no longer have mom guilt if I mess up, and I no longer label myself as a âbad momâ if I make a mistake like raising my voice. I have learned to give myself grace, not only as a mother but as a human being who deserves self love. I also take care of myself more. If I need to step away, I do so without guilt, and knowing itâs the best thing for everyone. Thank you so much Kate for this invaluable opportunity. Youâve been an inspiration in so many ways.
- Caitlin F, past group coaching client
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I signed up for the group program because I was feeling overwhelmed and just in a generally more unhappy place than my "usual" self... My motivation was low and I felt like I needed more resources/tools and support than simply following you and other "mom mental and physical health" experts on IG. After doing the group program, I have noticed some tangible changes in how I think and feel about certain situations that occur constantly (messy house, toddler acts a certain way, etc). I feel I have more tools now to change my reactions or my own feelings or thoughts toward these events that I did not have before.
- Alex F, past group coaching client
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Becoming a mom was a big transition for me and I found that I was struggling to find my identity through it all...The group helped me to see things more clearly even with overwhelm. I feel so much ease in my life now, and I think being able to identify emotions and name them outloud was one of the biggest takeaways for me. Now when I'm feeling something, I can name it and it brings a sense of ease rather than trying to change or repress that feeling. I learned to trust my feelings and that they are real and valid and worthy of being honored and explored. Truthfully, naming the emotions has made them less controlling and the negative feelings last for a much shorter time, which is amazing.
- Melissa J, past group coaching client
That's exactly what I'm going to help you with.
This is the program for you if you're ready to completely transform how your days are feeling - from overwhelmed, unfulfilled, and disconnected from yourself - to being aligned, present, and more alive.
How can we just drop parts of our identities, our hobbies and passions, our friendships and sometimes some of our dreams and simply be satisfied with that? How unrealistic!
It's normal to want more, yes, even when you really love your role as mom. Because here's the thing: being a mom was never supposed to be the only thing you needed to feel happy and fulfilled. Imagine the pressure that piles on kids if we believe that narrative?
What kids really need is to know is that it's not their job to make their mom happy. That their mom has a lot going on for herself - she's got dreams, interests, hobbies and qualities that don't just revolve around her family.
Sometimes moms ask me, "why am I not happy, I have everything?" But usually, they're missing the most important component to feeling truly content: a deep connection with self.
When you're connected to yourself, you know how you feel, what you need, what matters to you most. You believe that you're worthy of receiving your own energy, without guilt. You put your priorities on the list, and stop abandoning yourself. You drop the people-pleasing patterns that keep you unhappy.
When you are able to give yourself permission to connect with other parts of yourself, everything changes. You can finally live in alignment with yourself, every single day. And from there, you connect with what you've been longing for: more joy, presence, fulfillment, and vibrancy in life.
More fun, self-connection, and fulfillment in motherhood.
You feel uncomfortable when people talk about the hard stuff (I donât shy away)
Youâre looking for a quick fix (I hate extra padding, but donât leave anything out)
Youâre not into trying new strategies (being open to learning and practicing skills is a must)
The odd f-bomb bothers you (I like swearing. Itâs that simple)
You simply refuse to settle and not enjoy your life.
You love being a mom but your realizing that role might not meet all your needs
Youâre totally up for learning and personal growth, but you want it to feel like a late night chat with an honest friend.
The odd f-bomb makes your heart happy and toxic positivity makes you cringe.
Youâre tired of searching for help that falls flat. You want to get on with life.